This summertime, our family reunion was in Bali. It was a reunion of three generations. I find it quite interesting how different generations have a different perspective on parenting, marriage, life and everything in between.
We had been planning everything for a few months and when it was finally time to board the plane, we were beyond excited. During our flight, we were reminiscing about my siblings and of course sibling rivalry. As usual, there is always a nostalgia about sibling rivalry. I was also curious to meet my long lost cousins, their families and most importantly, people from third generations who are equally excited to join in. Throughout, I kept myself hydrated so that I look good and feel good when I get there and frankly, it really worked.
I fully agree with and support my father’s decision. Bali, with its serene natural beauty and pristine beaches against the backdrop of ancient temples, is the perfect place for family reunions. The locals are really friendly and the food, simply fantastic! The past and the present blend seamlessly here. Natural attractions, apart, this place will keep everyone engaged with a slew of activities.
We were the first ones to reach and check in the grand villa. The feeling was simply surreal. Embraced by the charm of the clear sky and the lush green garden, it felt like THE ideal place to be. Not only were the surrounding breathtaking, the amenities in the villa also exceeded our expectations. A 24-hour butler, driver, Balinese massage, swimming pool and (most importantly) good WI-Fi – what else could one need. Bali is the perfect place to catch up and unwind.
With families arriving every few hours, the place was packed by the evening. A delightful cacophony of shouts of joy could be heard all around and people of all types filled the villa. There were chubby and cute babies; tall and lean to short and stout kids; geeks to jocks; married to unmarried adults and healthy to not so healthy oldies. We talked about the good old days, sibling rivalry and also about how my father favored me no matter what as I was the youngest in the family.
I was meeting the families of a few distant cousins for the first time. First, I had the impression that it would be awkward to meet them after so many years but I was wrong. They all knew me and I knew them well. Although, with the passage of time, there was a profound change in all of us. After catching up for a few hours, we all called it a day. Everyone was looking forward to the enjoyment of the next day.
But, the next day, what I noticed left me thinking. Absolute silence had descended into the room. Except for a few, most of the people were busy on their devices. They watched with rapt attention as they updated their status on Facebook, uploaded pictures on Instagram and watched videos on YouTube. The little ones were left alone on their own. One thing immediately struck me: are these devices new sibling in the house? Then by all odds, there will be a sibling rivalry here too. I felt bad for those little ones who were too young to handle themselves, let alone this new sibling and its rivalry. No doubt, the omnipresence of technology is taking us slowly but surely away from the families.
However, when we all greeted each other and the day really began, the dampening thought slipped from my mind.We took the caravan to the beach with a picnic basket (all credits go to our butler for that fantastic spread).
Bali offers incredible activities for everyone, including both kids and adults. We all tested our courage as we soared through the sky on a parasail and the others showed their adventurous side as they snorkeled and surfed. The older people took solace in the traditional Balinese massage. Ladies were busy haggling for sarongs and hats. Making of sand dunes was the favorite of the little ones. As the sun was going down, the blue sky along with the ocean was changing hues. We then witnessed a picture perfect spectacular sunset.
As the night fell, there was an unbelievable buzz in the air, which was a perfect accompaniment to the booze and the breeze. The place was same, but not the atmosphere. Under the stars, the place was humming with the thumping of drums, tapping of feet and clicking of glasses. We came back recharged and relaxed. It was a day full of amusement and exhilaration.
I wish we could have had more of this amusement. But, like a whole lot of other things, this fun-filled reunion came to an end. It was time to pack the suitcases and say goodbye. The bags were filled with sand chafed linen and souvenirs for family and friends back home. Everyone departed with a heavy heart but promised to meet again. As always, it was a memorable extravaganza.